Friday, February 25, 2005

WOW, Well I Finally Got My Closure!!!

well it is finalized, he is officially a jerk...well asshole is what I really want to call him. So get this I am talking to some friends trying to get some advice and so one tells me to send him an email to see what is going on and if he will write, this is 2 weeks since we chatted and thought what the fuck why not email see if he is respectful enough to reply. Here is the email:

What I Wrote:
hey there...I was wondering if you got the last email I sent you?? If not was wondering if maybe u and I can get together and talk...i have a couple things I would like to ask ya...let me know...
ttys


here is his reply: ( Give him red, since it is his favorite color..LOL)

I go the last email yes...as for getting together no....i dont feel there are any questions to answer or that should be answered.

..so I am like ok whatever, like I said we never talked in a while and Had no clue why he stopped talking to me...so I am like ok, what did I do to you...no response..than out of the blue I get this email:

I'm sorry I don't want to meet up with you, I don't want to hang out. You like me and want more, and I don't. It is making me very uncomfortable. Please stop e-mailing me. The questions you are asking others are none of your business.
I'm with someone and I'm not gonna do anything to put that in Jepardy.

ok so what the fuck??? I am asking questions?? Like what and to whom?? no one, just lies...this person is just crazy and is trying to make me look retarded so he doesnt realize how much of an ass he is. If You read earlier yes there was a time I was interested in him, but when we hung out I came to the realization that all I want is a friendship and nothing else..but whatever. So of course I replied back and here is what I said:

I am sorry you feel that I want a relationship with you. I do not, we discussed this once before. to be honest I know you are in a relationship and I felt that you have to much baggage for me to consider being in a relationship with you. This sounds like an assumption on your behalf, but this will be my last email to you. I am sorry, I really thought we could have been friends...that is why I was persistant with the email, because that is what I really wanted...someone to work on my computer and just hang with...but that is cool. Sorry to cause any problems.
Take Care

I am guessing he is going to warp that reply like everything else. I dont know, I just give up and dont care anymore, this is HIS problem, not mine and if he is going to be an asshole, well let him and we will see what happens in the end. I am glad he replied, atleast he was man enough to do that, but me emailing him makes him uncomfortable...my friend said, I should just go stand next to him and see how uncomfortable that makes him feel. Now I heard a long time ago that he was the kind of person who thinks that everyone wants to sleep with him. I thought well I will give him the benefit of the doubt and get to know him. Well was I wrong...anywho that is about it. I am glad that there is closure, I needed that, and it just shocks me that he turned...I would love to ask him what ppl were saying I was asking things about him. The only thing I did, was one day I had asked someone how many kids he had, she said that would be a question for him...so that was the end of it. I should go to the ex and share some of my thoughts about him and get some input..I am sure she would love that one...but I am not one to play dirty...so on that note, It is done and I am glad! So there...

later days